Time magazine has glommed onto a trend called attachment parenting, which includes "extended breastfeeding," when a mother breastfeeds her child past infancy, babyhood, and into toddlerdom and older.
The cover of its May 21 issue features a controversial photo of a mother who has one breast partially exposed as she breastfeeds her toddler. And the cover article focuses on Dr. Bill Sears who, along with his wife, Martha, wrote The Baby Book that has spawned a trend in attachment parenting.
The trend includes co-sleeping and "baby wearing"—wearing your baby on your body in a sling, according to a "Behind the Cover" article by Karen Pickert in Time.
"Some parents subscribe to his theory that attachment parenting ... is the best way to raise confident, secure children," Pickert states in the article. "Others think Sears is an antifeminist tyrant, or that his ideas are just totally unrealistic."
One Baltimore pediatrician says there should be no timetables dictating when breastfeeding or co-sleeping should end.
But he warns against developing codependencies for both the parent and child that could stifle independence and healthy relationships.
Dr. Michael Zollicoffer, a pediatrician at the Herman & Walter Samuelson Children's Hospital at Sinai Hospital said he watches both the parent and child for signs of what he calls the "Linus Blanket Syndrome"—if they depend on each other or on something too much.
"It's a problem when you go through life and you set these kind of codependencies where you are connected to someone in a way that you have no independence in life: You can't ever start things on your own," he said.
Codependency is a problem no matter how you get there, Zollicoffer said. "Whether it's by holding a pacifier, or sitting down with a favorite bottle, or a breast, something that you can't 'let go of'—that's a negative."
While he often recommends breastfeeding for one or two years, and having a child sleeping alone by age 4 or 5, "there is no end point to me, or a timetable," he said. "As a public, we are looking at limits, and that is an error that we make."
Rather, in his practice he looks at each person—the parent as well as the child—to determine whether they are building healthy relationships.
"If you can't turn it off and you are riding off to college with a kid in the back of a stationwagon in a child seat, that is a problem," he said.
What do you think? Should children sleep in bed with their parent and breastfeed into toddlerhood and beyond? Is it a positive or negative that a mother poses for a cover photo with her child breastfeeding? Can attachment parenting go too far, or is it the path to raising a confident, secure child?
Very few speak out in offense by the constant covers showing unrealistic touched up pictures of women with their breasts falling out of sexy clothing. We're so used to seeing breasts being exposed in their sexual context that we accept the prurient and reject their natural purpose, and apply something dirty to it. It would be like expecting women not to be seen walking on their feet, lest they tempt men with foot fetishes.
The magazine could have tried to do a piece on the economy, etc. and highlight how we got here and the Democratic and Republican proposals to get us out of our problems. That would take brains by the magazine. Unfortunately, the libs running the magazine can't do this because their advanced degrees are in such challenging majors such as American Studies and Political Science. They will get their day of fame and then go back to decreasing readership. Second - looks like the boy is on a strict breast milk and Papa Johns diet. How is that healthy?
The libs may want to - but I don't believe Americans want to become a third world country. Let's give back running water and electricity also.
American Academy of Family Physicians: “Breastfeeding beyond the first year offers considerable benefits to both mother and child, and should continue as long as mutually desired. If the child is younger than two years of age, the child is at increased risk of illness if weaned.” American Academy of Pediatrics: “It is recommended that breastfeeding continue for at least 12 months, and thereafter for as long as mutually desired World Health Organization: “two years of age or beyond” http://www.who.int/nut/documents/gs_infant_feeding_text_eng.pdf That said, the article was sensationalism. When all you know is what lives in your little pond, you incorrectly assume all little ponds are alike.
Sorry - I meant Progressives.